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5 queer things to do when you’re feeling gay

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Finding joy and happiness is essential in a world that can sometimes feel like a rollercoaster of emotions. Feeling “gay” in the happy sense can be spontaneous and delightful, and what better way to celebrate happiness than by doing some wonderfully queer things?

Here are five delightfully offbeat activities that will add a splash of color to your life when you’re feeling gay. These spur-of-the-moment activities allow you to celebrate your happiness and the LGBTQ+ community without extensive planning or coordination with others.

Drag Yourself into a New Persona

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Have you ever thought about unleashing your inner diva or channeling your inner superhero? Well, when you’re feeling gay, it’s the perfect time to explore the world of drag. Drag is about transforming into an extravagant character and embracing your unique style. Whether you’re a queen, king, or anything in between, the drag scene welcomes all with open arms.

So grab some glitter, get creative with your makeup, and choose a persona that genuinely resonates with your spirit. You’ll have a blast getting ready and get a taste of the vibrant LGBTQ+ culture that celebrates individuality and self-expression.

Spontaneous Storytelling Session

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When you’re feeling happy and want to share that joy, consider a spontaneous LGBTQ+ storytelling session. Grab your phone, record a short video, and share a personal LGBTQ+ story or memory that brings a smile to your face. It could be a coming-out moment, a heartwarming encounter, or a tale of self-discovery.

Then, upload your video to a social media platform or a dedicated LGBTQ+ storytelling group. This impromptu sharing of experiences spreads positivity and fosters connection with others who can relate to your journey.

Rainbow Scavenger Hunt

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Embrace the colors of the LGBTQ+ flag with a rainbow scavenger hunt in your own home or neighborhood. On the spur of the moment, challenge yourself to find items or objects of each color of the rainbow (red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and purple). It could be anything from clothes to household items.

Take pictures of your finds and create a collage to share on your social media or with friends. This fun and creative activity not only brightens your day but also allows you to appreciate the Pride flag’s symbolism in a playful way.

Solo Dance Party

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Turn up the music, let loose, and have a solo dance party in your living room. You don’t need an invitation or a dance floor – just your favorite tunes and the freedom to move. Express yourself in whatever way feels right, without any judgment.

Capture a video of your dance moves and share it on your social media with a caption like, “Celebrating happiness with a spontaneous dance party!” It’s an instant mood booster and a way to spread joy with your online community.

Random Acts of Kindness for LGBTQ+ Causes

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Channel your happiness into random acts of kindness that support LGBTQ+ causes. Carry some rainbow stickers, flags, or LGBTQ+ awareness pins with you and leave them in public spaces for others to find. You could also buy a coffee for the person behind you in line and include a positive LGBTQ+ message on a note.

These small, spur-of-the-moment gestures brighten someone else’s day and spread awareness and love for the queer community in unexpected ways.

Share your stories, embrace the rainbow, dance like no one’s watching, and perform random acts of kindness – these simple yet joyful actions can make a big difference in your day and those around you.

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