Gay men receive dramatically less paternal leave than heterosexual or lesbian couples

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A research study on paid paternal leave found that while heterosexual and lesbian couple received similar amounts of leave, gay male couples were typically offered shorter leaves. 

Researchers at the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) studied 34 Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) countries, 33 of which have paid parental leave policies. The United States is the one holdout.

In their findings, published in the Journal of Social Policy, researchers found that just 12% of those countries offer the same number of weeks for parental leave as heterosexual couples. 

Lesbian couples fared better, receiving the same time off in just under 60% of the countries.

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“Many of the differences we found may be the indirect consequences of gender-restrictive language that assumes women are the primary caregivers and that every family has one mother and one father,” said Eizabeth Wong, the lead researcher for the study.

“These assumptions often undervalue the importance of fathers’ involvement. When they do, same-sex male couples and male partners of mothers are the most disadvantaged.”

Gay men, on average, received five fewer months of paid leave when compared to heterosexual couples, with lesbian couples typically receiving three less months. The study did not look at bisexual couples, nor did it consider transgender or nonbinary parents.

Of the countries included, only four — Australia, Iceland, New Zealand, and Sweden — offered the same leave for all. 

Three of the countries provide no paid adoption leave, and nine explicitly ban adoption by homosexual couples. In many cases, the language of laws in the countries emphasized the needs of heterosexual couples, and focused on language that centered on the needs of mothers over both partners.

“While we didn’t find any legislation that explicitly prohibits same-sex couples from receiving paid parental leave, the way policies are structured or worded can nevertheless stop them from claiming benefits,” said Wong.

“Policymakers can explicitly guarantee inclusion and equality for same-sex couples by removing gender-restrictive language and providing equal paid leave opportunities for fathers and partners as provided to mothers.”

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