This all-queer pro-wrestling event is pummeling homophobia into submission

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Professional wrestling in America has a long and homophobic history filled with flamboyant villains but very few out-and-proud LGBTQ-identified athletes. Rick Cataldo wants to change that.

Inspired by female wrestlers he saw growing up, Caltado dropped out of high school at age 14 to start working a busboy and training twice a week to become a pro wrestler. He didn’t care about becoming an Adonis—he wanted to become a character that would allow him to embrace his queerness.

During his career, he performed with exoticos, flamboyant openly gay lucha libre wrestlers in Mexico. Now, years later and back in America, Caltado is known as “The Boy Diva” and he runs A Matter of Pride, an all-queer wrestling event that seeks to give queer wrestling fans a place to see authentic queer representation of “all shapes, sizes and backgrounds.”

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A recent promo image for A Matter of Pride Wrestling. Cataldo “The Boy Diva” is the blonde in the top row-center. A Matter of Pride wrestling

“Gay wrestlers are treated as a novelty act [in pro wrestling] and we’ve been treated like that for years,” Caltado says. “But now I feel like there’s a window opening up in wrestling culture and we could really make an impact.”

When he first started wrestling, a lot of promoters and bookers, didn’t take Caltado seriously. “They thought I didn’t belong in the ring,” he says. “They thought I was a waste of time.” When he was booked, other male wrestlers saw his gender bending as an unwelcome disruption to their jock atmosphere and would throw his gym bag out of the ring.

“For a gay wrestler, we feel like we have to really up our game to get a fragment of the respect that any straight male worker might get,” Caltado says. “A straight wrestler will not accept gay wrestlers in the locker room. However, a straight wrestler will do the most homoerotic gay things in the ring for attention and for a quick payday.”

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While Caltado worries about costume malfunctions, no-show performers and injuries during his Matter of Pride events, he also puts on a good show filled with wrestlers in drag, female wrestlers, mixed gender matches and tough heels and babyface jobbers (that is, brutal villains and handsome punishment sponges).

One of the Matter of Pride wrestlers, Billy “The New Classic” Dixon, says, “When you’re a queer person in a very hyper-masculine environment, your femininity is looked at as a joke. It’s looked at as something you should be ashamed of.”

Dixon started off as a very masculine wrestler. But as he got a reputation for being tough in the ring, he gradually felt more comfortable embracing his femininity in the ring.

Here’s a video of Caltado and the Matter of Pride wrestlers:

Fellow Matter of Pride wrestler, WWE competitor Diva Melina Perez, says female athletes in pro-wrestlers also face discrimination and marginalization somewhat similar to queer wrestlers. They’re often pushed out in favor of male wrestlers and treated as a novelty.

Dixon says, “One of us in [Matter of Pride] is gonna be on national television in five to ten years, but only one of us. Whoever that person is, we’re gonna root for them, because that person is gonna break the m*therf*ck*ng glass ceiling.”

Even if you don’t like wrestling or violence, it’s still kinda jaw-dropping to see these queer athletes doing super heroic moves and allowing others to see their larger-than-life authentic selves.

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