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Commentary
Confronting your own flaws could be the key to a healthy relationship
LGBTQ+ couples are more likely to be insecurely attached, but that doesn’t mean they’re doomed to fail.
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LGBTQ+ people are used to unfulfilled longing. But we deserve more
Dating apps make it easy to create fantasies of the person on the other end. But what do we do when those fantasies don’t live up to reality?
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When opposite attachment styles attract: How anxious & avoidant partners can work through conflict
Reality is a constant blending of multiple disparate truths and perspectives. Resolving conflict takes acknowledging them all.
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Attachment theory has its flaws. But it can still help make your relationship stronger
There is no one size fits all approach to human relationships, but there are many benefits to examining one’s self through the lens of attachment theory.
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Insecurely attached couples are not doomed to fail. Here’s how to make your love last a lifetime
Security is a climate created by two people and can flourish when both are ready to work for it.
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6 relationship tips for the anxiously attached
Energy can be converted rather than tamped down or suppressed.
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Think you’re avoidantly attached? Here’s how to keep your relationship healthy
Start by looking inward.
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LGBTQ+ couples are more likely to be insecurely attached. Here’s what that means.
Relationships between anxious and avoidant personalities do not have to be doomed.
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Let’s honor Earth Day by practicing queer ecology
Like nature, queerness is beautiful and diverse. Also like queerness, it is constantly under attack.
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5 things I’ve learned from therapy as an LGBTQ+ person
Before the 1970s, LGBTQ+ individuals were mainly treated with conversion therapy. Things have changed dramatically since then, and here’s what I’ve learned.