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Calif. mayor says bullying victims need to toughen up and ‘grow a pair’

Calif. mayor says bullying victims need to toughen up and ‘grow a pair’

PORTERVILLE, Calif. — A central California mayor says bullying victims should toughen up, “grow a pair” and defend themselves, sparking anger among some city officials and gay rights advocates.

Cameron Hamilton
Cameron Hamilton

At a recent City Council meeting, Porterville Mayor Cameron Hamilton said he opposes bullying but thinks it is too often blamed for the world’s problems. Hamilton said some people need to “grow a pair.”

The mayor was responding to a student program proposing safe zones around town with signs directing children to places where they could seek refuge from bullies. Porterville is a community of 55,000 residents 70 miles southeast of Fresno.

Former mayor and councilwoman Virginia Gurrola backs the safe zones and told the mayor, “It’s hard to just ‘grow a pair’ when you’re a 10-year-old girl.”

Melissa McMurrey of Gay Porterville told KFSN-TV that she felt attacked by the mayor’s comments. She said bullies often target young gay people.

Hamilton cast the lone vote against further discussing the safety zones. He told The Associated Press on Friday that he’s not anti-gay, but he opposed the plan because it would be costly and expose the city to lawsuits if a safe zone turned dangerous.

“The message is, together we can all fight this thing,” Hamilton said of bullying.

The proposal has been pulled from discussion at next weeks’ council meeting.

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Last year, the city was at the center of a flap when the council rescinded a proclamation by then-Mayor Gurrola declaring June as LGBT pride month.

The council replaced it with a resolution calling June a month of community charity and good will to all, then stripped the mayor, and vice-mayor Pete McCracken of their largely ceremonial titles.

Hamilton was among the council members voting to rescind the LGBT proclamation and demote the mayor and vice-mayor.

The Porterville City Council was the only city government in the state to support Proposition 8, the ballot initiative that outlawed same-sex marriage in California in 2008.

Associated Press contributed to this report.

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