Historical photos of men in love: A defiantly casual embrace

Private time at the picnic
Private time at the picnic Photo: Courtesy of the Nini-Treadwell Collection

The new book LOVING: A Photographic History of Men in Love portrays romantic love between men in hundreds of moving photographs taken between the 1850s and 1950s. Now, the authors are sharing some of the never-before-published photos exclusively with LGBTQ Nation this month along with their thoughts and the backstory behind each photo.

Taken when male partnerships were often illegal, the photos are from the collection of a married couple, Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell, who over the past 20 years have meticulously accumulated over 2,800 snapshots, portraits, and group photos.

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The couple found them at flea markets, in shoe boxes, estate sales, family archives, old suitcases, and online auctions. Their collection now includes photos from all over the world.

The technology used consists of ambrotypes, daguerreotypes, glass negatives, tintypes, cabinet cards, photo postcards, photo strips, photomatics, and snapshots – over one hundred years of social history that reflect changing fashion, hairstyles, and societal norms, as well as the development of photography.

The men in LOVING shared a common desire to be seen and memorialize their stories despite the risks. Each image is an open demonstration of love, affection, and also bravery. The message here is as old as time, but from an unexpected, and heretofore silent, source.

Challenging boundaries, universal in reach, and overwhelming in impact, the photos speak to our spirit and resilience, our capacity for bliss, and our longing for the shared truths of love. It moves the conversation beyond old stereotypes and shifts the narrative to where it should have been all along: two people in love can be any two people, regardless of gender, orientation, or any other human-created divide.

Private time at the picnic
Private time at the picnic Courtesy of the Nini-Treadwell Collection



70 x 117 mm

Provenance: US

Hugh and Neal: The strong embrace of these two men, on a picnic blanket with a loaf of bread in the foreground, conveys the tranquility of a lazy afternoon shared by two lovers.

One is in the process of pulling the blanket over his face in a moment of shyness. The other, draped across his boyfriend’s chest, aims his longing directly into the camera. It is as if he is reaching out, across time, for us to share this intimate moment between them.

It is so beautiful that it merited a double page in our book.

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