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Once bullied gay teen starts anti-bullying coalition to help other bullied kids

TIPTON, Iowa -- NBC Nightly News on Sunday profiled 17-year-old Jake Stallman, a once bullied gay teen from eastern Iowa who decided he no longer could suffer in silence and now helps other kids who are bullied.

By Staff Reports Sunday, October 20, 2013 · Updated on February 15, 2014

Once bullied gay teen starts anti-bullying coalition to help other bullied kids

TIPTON, Iowa — NBC Nightly News on Sunday profiled 17-year-old Jake Stallman, a once bullied gay teen from eastern Iowa who decided he no longer could suffer in silence and now helps other kids who are bullied.

Jake, who started an anti-bullying coalition in his high school in Tipton, Iowa, was recently awarded the “Spirit of Matthew Award” from the Matthew Shepard Foundation.

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Jake also blogs for Matthew’s Place, a project by and for LGBTQ youth from the Matthew Shepard Foundation.

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