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Filed: Saturday, March 16, 2013

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N.C. church will no longer officiate weddings until gay couples can marry

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WINSTON-SALEM, N.C. — A Methodist church in Winston-Salem, N.C., said it will no longer perform marriages for heterosexual couples until United Methodist pastors are allowed to officiate at marriages for same-sex couples.

Green Street United Methodist Church

The Green Street United Methodist Church‘s 18-member leadership council is asking its pastor to conduct relationship blessings rather than marriage ceremonies in the sanctuary until the United Methodist Church changes its policies.

“On the matter of gay marriage, the church sees injustice in the legal position of state government and the theological position of our denomination. North Carolina prohibits same sex marriage and all the rights and privileges marriage brings. The Leadership Council has asked that their ministers join others who refuse to sign any State marriage licenses until this right is granted to same sex couples,” the church said, in a statement.

“Because the United Methodist Church prohibits its pastors from conducting same sex weddings, excluding gay and lesbian couples from the holy sacrament of marriage, the Leadership Council has asked their pastor to refrain from conducting wedding ceremonies in our sanctuary for straight couples, until the denomination lifts its ban for same sex couples.”

The church council scheduled a Sunday news conference to discuss its position.

Currently, the United Methodist Church prohibits its pastors from conducting same sex weddings. The church also bans gay and lesbian people from serving as clergy.

In May 2012, voters in North Carolina passed a constitutional ban on same-sex marriage, approved by more than 60 percent of voters.

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  1. That is so wonderful!!!!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:35pm
  2. :)

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:35pm
  3. Just about time!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:35pm
  4. awesome. :D

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:36pm
  5. Amazing! :)

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:36pm
  6. Awesome! I love my home town!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:38pm
  7. VERY NICE! Thank you for the solidarity!!!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:39pm
  8. But wouldn’t such marriages still be legally null and void in NC since they passed that amendment prohibiting same sex marriage, as did Florida and many other states? This is why we need Federal legislation guaranteeing full and equal American citizen rights to every American, not just the gay community.

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:40pm
  9. Right on!Thank you.

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:41pm
  10. Bravo!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:41pm
  11. Love it!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:44pm
  12. You are spot on Gregory P. Gallien!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:45pm
  13. good for a church standing up for what is right

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:46pm
  14. Awesome church so good to hear something other then hate

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:46pm
  15. See! I told y’all we’re not all like that! Even the straights.

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:52pm
  16. In the church weddings are not even required by law in the US. The original church existed for centuries before wedding ceremonies even took place in a church.

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 2:53pm
  17. YES FINALLY A NC CHURCH i live in nc and i really want it to change for the better so i can marry my future husband in my native state

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:02pm
  18. Kudos! <3 We need all churches to behave in the respectable manner that yours does. Some day, with wonderful people like you!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:05pm
  19. LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:13pm
  20. Right on!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:18pm
  21. Then come to Colorado its getting close that we might possibly be able to marry! Civil rights just has been noticed here,so I am sure marriage is just around the corner! Hopefully

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:21pm
  22. right on!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:22pm
  23. It’s a great start!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:25pm
  24. Sometimes you just have to take a stand!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:32pm
  25. Good for them!! Hopefully more churches will begin following suit!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:37pm
  26. Proud of them :)

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:49pm
  27. GOOD!!!!!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 3:57pm
  28. Thank you to the people of this church

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 4:05pm
  29. 19 yrs old a singer/songwriter and gay. My home state is NC. WTG So proud

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 4:14pm
  30. What a perfect message they’re about the Real God…

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 5:02pm
  31. Finally!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 5:16pm
  32. HEHEHE

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 5:21pm
  33. Well, how about that!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 5:42pm
  34. Thank you N.C. !!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 6:23pm
  35. Amazing. That is what is called taking a stand.

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 7:04pm
  36. Fair play

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 9:00pm
  37. Yeah!

    Posted on Saturday, March 16, 2013 at 10:54pm
  38. Please send me friend requests. I promise to confirm each such request. Currently, the option of sending friend requests is blocked on my Facebook account

    Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 at 12:32am
  39. WOW! I live like 30 minutes from Winston. That’s great news!

    Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 at 1:28am
  40. like

    Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 at 4:42am
  41. Methodist church in the Bible Belt? Did not expect something like this. That’s really amazing! Hooray for them!

    Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 at 7:51am
  42. omg they cant deny straight people to marry thatd be so hateful and horrible.

    Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 at 10:31am
  43. (sarcasm)

    Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 at 10:31am
  44. Yea…….

    Posted on Sunday, March 17, 2013 at 10:39am
  45. How brave and wonderful!

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 5:59pm
  46. thank you!

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 5:59pm
  47. Bravo

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:02pm
  48. What does it solve ultimately?

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:04pm
  49. so what about all those heterosexual couples who want to be married regardless and be happy and celebrate such an event..this church is going to tell them to go elsewhere in the name of God?

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:05pm
  50. I guess all those heterosexual couples who want to be married will then know how it feels to the gay couples who are discriminated against.

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:10pm
  51. Wow! Maybe NC isn’t all that bad

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:11pm
  52. The congregation has agreed to this, and have decided to make a drastic stand for love. Why would anyone ask a church they do not attend to perform their marriage ceremony?

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:11pm
  53. It should, Karen because in the bible if we need to really go there it tells us to love one another as Jesus loves us ALL

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:22pm
  54. good

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:23pm
  55. GOOD!!! :)

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 6:58pm
  56. That’s sweet of them but they could go a step further and help humanity by dismantling their bogus organization

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 7:16pm
  57. What the horror

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 7:35pm
  58. HA ! YAY!!

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 9:44pm
  59. No Jorge Juarez, I am afraid that puts you in the same boat as people wanting to stop gay marriages all together, but on a slightly different skew. No matter your outlook on organized religion, they should be afforded the right to believe and practice any form of personal religious belief they choose just as much as we should be able to love any person we choose and marry them, with the same tolerance from the nation and freedom of choice.

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 10:06pm
  60. Very courageous and totally awesome. Bravo

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 11:20pm
  61. Emily i am not a bible person..:)

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 11:36pm
  62. we can all have our different perspectives and understandings and respect them

    Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013 at 11:36pm
  63. Maybe there is hope for NC after all. I hope more people / organizations would take a similar stand.

    Posted on Tuesday, March 19, 2013 at 6:22am
  64. Baptists, take note……………..

    Posted on Tuesday, March 19, 2013 at 10:07am
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