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eHarmony founder: Homosexuality is ‘a painful way for people to have to live’

Claims same-sex marriage 'really damaged our company'
Sunday, February 17, 2013

Neil Clark Warren, the Christian co-founder of the dating site eHarmony, said he’s “tired” of the debate over marriage equality for gays and lesbians, and blamed same-sex marriage for damaging his company.

Neil Clark Warren

In an interview with CNBC/Yahoo!’s “Off the Cuff,” Warren also said that someone needs to “do a really first class job of figuring out homosexuality” because it’s “a painful way for a lot of people to have to live.”

“I think this issue of same-sex marriage within the next five to 15 years will be no issue anymore. We’ve made too much of it. I’m tired of it. It has really damaged our company,” Warren said, “and when the attorney general of the state of New Jersey decided that we had to put up a same-sex site and we did it out of counsel that if we didn’t do it we were not going to have any business in New Jersey — we literally had to hire guards to protect our lives because the people were so hurt and angry with us, were Christian people, who feel that it’s a violation to scripture.

He continued, “I have said that eHarmony really ought to put up $10 million and ask other companies to put up money and do a really first class job of figuring out homosexuality. At the very best, it’s been a painful way for a lot of people to have to live. But at this point, at this age, I want America to start drawing together. I want it to be more harmonious.”

eHarmony, which in its early years primarily marketed to a Christian clientele, has been the target of numerous lawsuits over the years for its refusal to match same-sex couples.

In 2008, eHarmony reached a settlement with New Jersey’s Civil Rights Division in a discrimination case — the company agreed to launch a new website that would cater to same-sex couples. Compatible Partners was launched in 2009.

In 2010, eHarmony agreed to pay $500,000 and make its website more gay friendly by adding a”gay and lesbian dating” category to its main website to send users to its Compatible Partners site. The agreement was part of a settlement in a California class-action lawsuit.

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  1. fuck eharmony

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:45pm
  2. LOL

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:45pm
  3. *facepalm….

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:45pm
  4. bullshit

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:45pm
  5. lol

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:45pm
  6. he had to hire people to protect him from whom? Other Christians…..fucking morons!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  7. Stop trying.Please.You aren’t succeeding.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  8. Oh, he can fuck the hell off and bite a curb.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  9. What’s painful is setting up a website for pervs and stalkers!!! >:(

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  10. my dick shoved far down your throat is ‘a painful way’ way to live… XD

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  11. go bankrupt

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  12. He’s evil.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  13. does he talk about how its okay for psycho’s to meet and date but not lgbt?? yea he can go away now….ill be sure to mute his dumb ignorant old ass when his commercials are on tv/radio

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  14. Oh, wow.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  15. E-Harmony has long been a racist & homophobic bunch of fools feeding off the desperately feeble-minded.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  16. Blames a group for their own incompetence? Oh get real.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  17. Founder is a Jackass.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  18. use more lube

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:46pm
  19. - Oh, poor frackin’ company….boo-hoo, whoop-de-schnitt. Won’t /someone/ think of the companies?

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:47pm
  20. The only pain about it is caused by hateful ignorant coldhearted bigots like that.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:47pm
  21. GO SUCK A LEMON

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:47pm
  22. Oy!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:47pm
  23. Old son of a bitch. The senile bastard still thinks it’s 1945

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:48pm
  24. As painful as people like him make it

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:48pm
  25. It actually feels pretty good. Haha

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:48pm
  26. GO SUCK A LEMON

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:48pm
  27. POF is better!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:48pm
  28. Oh please Jackass…eHarmony is nothing but WestboroMingle.com lite…you’re just pissed because you had to create a gay dating site…let me get my m***** f****** violin!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:48pm
  29. Being in the closet is painful, being gay is not, he should ask someone who knows.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:49pm
  30. They gay community in my eyes is not painful, I enjoy it respectful loving people yes people not subhuman.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:49pm
  31. Hemorrhoids are painful. Being Gay is not. It is only made painful by the derision of OTHERS. Live & let live, & the world suddenly becomes a much better place.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:49pm
  32. Dumb…….that doesn’t make any sense to me. What about all of the straight ones and where some of them turned out to be? This man is losing his mind

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:49pm
  33. Fuck you and your stupid ass site. If you were so concerned about up holding the sanctity of marriage you wouldn’t be charging for love. Fuck you. My presidents black and my Lambo is blue. Suck my dick

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:49pm
  34. I didn’t come out of the FUCKING closet to hear this bullshit

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:50pm
  35. No, what’s painful for GLTB is homophobia generated by religious prejudice!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:50pm
  36. What a freak. I’m not in pain because I’m gay. I have a great life with a great guy. I’m educated, own my house, have kids. Boo freaking hoo people are living in a way he doesn’t like. Oh and I’m Christian. Christ never once said anything about homosexuality.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:50pm
  37. Should’ve known he was a homophobe.

    The horny, old eHarmony guy (this is how I’ve referred to him until I figured out his name just now) has always creeped me out! >:(

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:50pm
  38. I believe Christian Mingle damaged your company more than gay marriage.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:51pm
  39. he can kiss my gay ass!!!!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:51pm
  40. The only way that it might be painful is due to ignorant bigots like you preventing them from having rights equal to those of heterosexuals.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:51pm
  41. Disgusting.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:51pm
  42. Oh, for heaven’s sake! What an idiotic claim!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:51pm
  43. Yet another HOMOPHOBIC MORON for the bunch!!! GET OVER YOURSELF!!! It’s not about YOU, it’s about <3 for one another!!!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:52pm
  44. He’s gay

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:52pm
  45. if you listen to Jesus he tells us to love everyone regardless of skin color, sexual orientation etc. btw I’m pansexual so I think that Gay marriage should be legal!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:52pm
  46. I’m sorry but eHarmony ain’t Harmony enough, Neil Clark Warren go home you’re drunk.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:52pm
  47. I tell ya what, it was painful for me trying to live that “straight” life society expected me to live and every day hate my authentic self. *That* was painful.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:53pm
  48. he can stick his opinion and his bible where the sun dont shine

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:53pm
  49. Perhaps it’s other websites competing against yours, you old odd fool!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:54pm
  50. Is this fucktard for real? His face damages my eye sight but you don’t hear me complaining

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:54pm
  51. I encounterd one who is the pastor at my church today he is trying to have members of the church congregation reverse the bill of Gay Marriage being passed where I live in Illinois he’s a b****

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:54pm
  52. @Bobby you have a lambo? SWEET

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:54pm
  53. True asshole…

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:54pm
  54. my boyfriend and I decided A LONG time ago that eharmony is bull sh*t and anyone who signs up for it is asking for a full of bull sh*t relationship that’s full of false advertisement and lies, mostly because we <3 and support the GLBTQ community

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:55pm
  55. 2 thoughts here, first, how does he know what sexual orientation his clients are and he’s in no position to be judging weather people are in pain or not

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:56pm
  56. I tried their “compatible partners” thing and found it to be the same BS as the “straight” site. If you didn’t match their “clientelle” list, it would tell you in no certain terms that you weren’t right for their site and to go look elsewhere. Or, if they did provide matches, that said matches would be absolutely terrible. No thanks.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:56pm
  57. Same-sex marriage “damaged” their company? Did all the pretend heteros up and leave or something? The only thing damaged is his brain,

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:57pm
  58. Just another evil face of hatred in a crowd of many….this company should be gone or maybe Dorothy can drop a house on him too!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:57pm
  59. fuck eharmony. use mingle2: http://mingle2.com/

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:58pm
  60. OH BOO HOO…get over it…

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 9:59pm
  61. Ugh. All bigots are the same. In other news, I love my black boyfriend. Lol

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:00pm
  62. Or OKCupid, nu?

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:01pm
  63. I’ve always been sceptical of their company and disliked the eHarmony ads, this confirmation of intolerance and ignorance on behalf of their ownership just confirms my opinion.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:01pm
  64. Ignorant.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:02pm
  65. Idiot

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:03pm
  66. Fuck him !

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:03pm
  67. oh I know, my ass is sore from last night…

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:04pm
  68. booo

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:05pm
  69. Sure blame someone for your company’s failure

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:05pm
  70. This kind of stuff makes me so angry it’s not right. Let people love who the fuck they want to love.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:06pm
  71. You know what? FUCK you dude. Being gay, or bisexual in my case, ISN’T a painful way to live. You know what’s painful douchebag?? When people like you spout and perpetuate their ignorance and hatred. GET OVER IT!!!!!! GAY IS A NATURAL THING!!! And since you;re a christian, take it up with God, s/he created ALL. yeah, that’s right, God created gay people AND God LOVES gay people just as much as the next heterosexual.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:08pm
  72. honestly, I found the love of my life via eharmony, but I am also straight. I am absolutely appalled at this statement and will no longer tell people to use this service.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:09pm
  73. I’m tired of the debate, too! So, lets make sure EVERYONE has the same rights already, cause this debate is BS.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:09pm
  74. hurt his business,, how? being welcome to MORE people would equal getting more money. what a douche rocket. ignorance like that is the only thing I find ‘painful’

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:09pm
  75. He’s absolutely right….it is painful to be gay and afraid of coming out…..being gay isn’t the problem….being afraid of bigots is the problem!!! He has no clue what its like to live being gay….happier than I’ve ever been!!!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:09pm
  76. too bad !!!!!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:12pm
  77. Only hurts when i hear this kind of ignorance and hate

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:13pm
  78. just because he never made any money from it…SMH!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:13pm
  79. The pain is from assholes the Neil Ckark Warren’s of this world. Condescending pieces of crap

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:13pm
  80. Screw him.. his ignorance and greed..”It’s damaging his business”…

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:15pm
  81. Yes it is so painful knowing that I like more than just one gender. I am in so much pain. Man, these people are so stupid.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:15pm
  82. The pain is with being with the wrong sex!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:15pm
  83. being a bigot moron damaged the company – not gay people

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:17pm
  84. *derp derp* Poor little sad old man.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:17pm
  85. Guarantee that this story will HURT his business now!
    I met my love on match.com!
    We are a same sex couple and both had a good experience using match.com.
    There is always another more progressive, more inclusive, less hate-filled company to use (no matter the business!)
    Boycott the asshats!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:17pm
  86. Oh no he didn’t. I will not support anymore.i did not know that

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:18pm
  87. i only agree halfway. as a christian I can’t agree with practicing homosexuality; I just can’t. But at the same…this dude is a tad bit harsh (even though in a philosophical standpoint i agree because being far from God can be quite painful)

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:20pm
  88. well fuck that guy anyways.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:22pm
  89. @Alison: If God is love, then how is someone so FAR from God for loving someone? Also, your God makes Gay people.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:23pm
  90. Can we vote him off the planet? Every gay can contribute $1 and we can shoot him off into space … so he can live in his own little vacuum.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:24pm
  91. good i wish doctor do good zillionaire would go belly up, not due to same sex anything but more to the way he ‘harms’ so many singles.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:24pm
  92. omg,get over yourselves its normal and i am proof of it! don’t bash something you will never have an opened mind too!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:25pm
  93. and homosexuality is not a practice or letst call heterosexuality a practice as well

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:26pm
  94. The only pain in being gay is caused my nutters like Mr. Warren.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:27pm
  95. Stupid is painful too ;)

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:27pm
  96. The only thing that’s painful is the lack of money in his bank account.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:29pm
  97. Why would anyone go to someone who looks like him for dating advice? From his appearance and pronouncements, the man apparently has no game.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:29pm
  98. Another person who’s mind has stayed at the same place for the last 50 yrs. so sad that nyou have been brain washed and can’t get the cobwebs out.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:29pm
  99. boycottttt!!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:32pm
  100. He’s just showing his ignorance.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:32pm
  101. If he wanted Gay $ he should stop being a bigot and open a division of his company for that demographic – not malign it because Gay people aren’t interested in ‘dating’ the opposite sex. What a moron, and a greedy one.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:34pm
  102. Asshat!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:34pm
  103. His stupidity must be a painful way to live, too bad we can’t fix stupid!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:38pm
  104. Curious to know if Compatible Partners has the same founders as eHarmony. At least that is what I thought when I joined the Compatible Partners site before I met my wife. I only had that account for two days because it was a very costly site! But I am pretty sure they ha the same founders because eHarmony did not allow same sex relationship connections.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:38pm
  105. He is a moron.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:42pm
  106. If it’s painful he must be doing it wrong.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:43pm
  107. its not a christian person upset cuz violateing scriptures. its an uneducated person who heard stories bout a book called bible. and fyi scriptures aprove of homosexual love and marriage just read and find it with holy spirit

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:43pm
  108. ‘Tis “painful” because some people still think it’s ok to say whatever passes through their head without thinking that their words may hurt others.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:46pm
  109. Do we really care? If he’s unhappy, he looks old enough to retire and leave the business to a more enlightened generation. Or he could just go run a chain of car washes or something where he doesn’t have to deal (much) with marriage equality!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:50pm
  110. Wait a minute guys, it’s actually not easy to tell where he stands on the issue. It sounds like he really doesn’t have an opinion either way and is tired of being caught in the middle of the whole thing. He is right in that being gay is a painful way to live because of how others treat us. I feel for him that he had to fear for his life because of crazy Christians. We of all people know how that feels and I’m rather surprised at the amount of hate he’s getting when he hasn’t even said anything flammable against us.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:53pm
  111. To all the older hateful people in the world. The baby boom is over, you’re irrelevant. So die.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:53pm
  112. How does he know it’s a painful way to live? Is he Gay?!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:54pm
  113. Fuck him. Really, I don’t care what he thinks about homosexuality. Let him go off and be as unhappy as he wants, he doesn’t know anything about anything.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:55pm
  114. I SEE a Huge LAWSUIT HERE IN INDIANA

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 10:59pm
  115. Fine, jackass, I won’t ever join your damn dating site.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:01pm
  116. Dumbass!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:01pm
  117. No, being the target of bigotry, intolerance and injustice is a painful way to live.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:01pm
  118. Oh the pain…the pain….

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:02pm
  119. Fucking tosser!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:03pm
  120. Brian, we get beat up and crap all the time. It’s not hard to tell it’s painful for us to live. Just because they don’t experience it first hand doesn’t mean they don’t know it exists or have some idea on how bad it is. Hence, straight allies.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:03pm
  121. He’s doing it wrong if the pain is unwelcome, silly rabbit, lube is for everyone.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:03pm
  122. Why would any members of today’s rainbow ever even WANT to use a dating site that discriminated against them anyway?

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:04pm
  123. This bigot is just pissed that he’s losing business.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:06pm
  124. Well FUCK him and FUCK his stupid pussy whipped dating website.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:11pm
  125. Gay means happy…not painful way to live. :)

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:12pm
  126. Really?!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:13pm
  127. SMDH . RAISE YOUR PRICES AND INVITE YOUR COUNTRY CLUB FRIENDS TO JOIN. PROBLEM SOLVED. JS

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:13pm
  128. …Am I the only one who got the sudden urge to punch this guy in the face?

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:21pm
  129. Maybe if they could a website to meet other single homosexual people to form meaningful relationships? Do you have one of those, sir?

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:23pm
  130. … H8′ER!!!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:23pm
  131. No! Your homophobia ruined your company!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:30pm
  132. It’s not so painful if you use lube Neil.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:38pm
  133. It’d be a lot less painful if guys like this would just be quiet & leave us alone.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:38pm
  134. AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! You assholes!

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:39pm
  135. good thing i don’t use his shit company.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:40pm
  136. This is why I never used eharmony.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:42pm
  137. The company won’t even LET gays and lesbians join. There is no option. The choices are all het company states unequivocally in the terms that they believe only hers will be happy. Just turn these a-holes off and support gay and lesbian owned, operated and friendly companies. We will rise if we stick together and leave these dinosaurs in the dust.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:44pm
  138. What is with his grammar? His sentence went on forever.

    Posted on Sunday, February 17, 2013 at 11:47pm
  139. How in the HELL does Clark Warren thinks he knows how gays live? I demand he explain himself! WHAT A DESPICABLE ANAL PORE

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:21am
  140. What an idiot. How about we do a first class job of figuring out why people can’t let us live our lives without assholes like this guy hating on us?

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:37am
  141. blah,blah,blah…..homosexuality is ‘a pleasing and honest way for people to live’.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:39am
  142. “— we literally had to hire guards to protect our lives because the people were so hurt and angry with us, were Christian people, who feel that it’s a violation to scripture.” (Neil Warren quoted from the article)… Yeah, real good Christians, if you have to hire guards for protection from them.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:40am
  143. Idiot

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:44am
  144. Fuck him

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:51am
  145. And maybe the name of his company should be eDisharmony.com!?!?!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:52am
  146. Mr. Warren >We can hear you better when you come out of the closet!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:04am
  147. From the person who introduced a website for GLBT community? I worked for eHarmony. It was the WORST COMPANY EVER to use and to work for

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:08am
  148. What a dumb arse

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:23am
  149. And how the fuck would he know it’s painful?

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:32am
  150. I am so sick of stupid people like this that are telling us what we supposedly “are” and how we “must” feel. These people are so sick that they feel they have to push their miserable lives on others to make them fell better about themselves in order to cure their own insecurity and inferiority complex.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:36am
  151. This is the main reason I hate the “church”.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:37am
  152. If he’s had to hire guards for his personnel to protect them from angry Christians, than he should ask for money to figure out the “Angry Christian” lifestyle. That is a pathetic and harmful way to live.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:41am
  153. I can’t stand this guy and never could. He is extremely irritating on TV and I’m sick to death of commercials for eharmony.com. It is a homophobic site, and this guy is SO out of touch. The gay lifestyle has not damaged his business! HE has damaged his business by not allowing everyone who wants to find a partner to use the site. He is so pious and self-righteous. Get out of our living rooms, sir, you are staining our carpets!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:52am
  154. shouldn’t those christians be more charitable and turn the other cheek about the whole thing?

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 2:17am
  155. I think homosexuality is perposterous and I’m tired of people telling me its not ok for me to say it. Its genetically oppsoite of the instructions given to us by nature and for the most part its just peopel who can’t keep a decent person of the opposite sex because they have so many issues of their own. For the one person who was truely born with the genetic defect of homosexuality theirs 300,000 just living the lifestyle to be adament about something.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 3:26am
  156. Does he think they can come up with a vaccine or something?

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 3:29am
  157. it is painful to live because of ignorant people like him making it painful.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 3:51am
  158. This guy needs to fuck off and die.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 3:57am
  159. Wah, wah, cry me a river. Damn cult, anyway : )

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 4:21am
  160. EHarmony sucks for this reason alone. I tell any friend who’s seeking partnership through the internet not to use this site. What an asshole!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 4:53am
  161. why because they preyed on the feelings of the lonely and made a fortune off it and finally people woke up and stopped using Unharmonious

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:17am
  162. DB!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:18am
  163. What disgusts me is he’s saying that homosexuality is a disease that needs to be eradicated.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:20am
  164. Go duck yourself asshole

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:23am
  165. FOAD!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:27am
  166. Typical Republican Christian. Damages his own company and blames someone else.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:39am
  167. Why did he have to hire armed guards to protect him from his own kind? Am I the only one who sees the irony in this?

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:42am
  168. you know whats painful, seeing your shitty commercials

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:15am
  169. John, glad you left. I didn’t realize the gay version of the site was forced. This guy is a tool!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:21am
  170. Seriously? More “Christian” hate thy neighbor BS. David is right about it being ironic, but I think Mr Warren is given to hyperbole. Armed guards? Really? I think that God does not smile on this homophobic ugliness.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:22am
  171. He is just jealous because he is all old and crusting and no one desires him anymore (only his money is what anyone would be after). Now he has to sit back and watch the millions of same sex couples being given their constitutional right to the pursuit of happiness… he can’t stand it… Misery loves company!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:22am
  172. and they ‘lost’ money??? What a spleen….they had to hire guards to protect them??? From whom??? The radical violent xians who hate others???

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:31am
  173. Dawww. I feel bad for him, must feel so alone…

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:32am
  174. sometimes, if you’re the bottom. lol. please. he is just a hateful mess.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:36am
  175. Not from my vantage point!!! I’m very happy, thank you

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:36am
  176. Stupidity is a painful way to live also.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:37am
  177. If it is painful for him, he’s not doing it right.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:39am
  178. @ Dan gladitz….you are entitled to your opinions regarding homosexuality. You and others like you are NOT entitled to discriminate against us simply because you feel like it. Your religious beliefs cannot trump someone else’s civil rights. That’s not how this country is supposed to work. I suggest you find a way to deal with it….within 10 years gay Americans will have all of the same rights you already enjoy.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:49am
  179. when someone makes a point about complaining about someone else’s way of life, it’s usually because they envy it.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 7:21am
  180. Being gay is no different than being str8. You have your preferences and I have mine. How mine jeopardize you are beyond my comprehension. Quite frankly I don’t even find the majority of the str8 men that attractive – mentally or physically. To say my life style jeopardizes you is to admit you are not all that secure with yours.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 7:25am
  181. yeah it is painful having to live and tolerate bigots and “christians”

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 7:34am
  182. Ignore these people. They don’t deserve to be heard.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 7:42am
  183. Ignorant fool.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 7:56am
  184. This guys a dick why would any homo bother using the gay friendly site eharmony. Just find another dating site completely.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 8:58am
  185. That is just stupid

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 9:01am
  186. If he thinks sodomy is a pain in the ass, he’s doing it wrong.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 9:08am
  187. What really damaged this guy’s company is that they keep spamming 16 year olds with dating services. Not only does it damage his company, but also pressures society even more into being in a relationship. If you do/don’t want to be with someone, fine, go for it. Don’t let someone else say you can’t/shouldn’t/need to be with them.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 9:10am
  188. Good God, he forgot the lube, didn’t he!!! <3

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 9:24am
  189. He doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Such an Ignorant Homophobe!!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 9:44am
  190. Wow. Fuck this ignorant idiot.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 10:44am
  191. Yes, Mr. Warren. Such a painful way for people to have to live. To have crotchety old pseudo-Christians like yourself say things like gays “have no purpose”, to live in a country where sending an “I love you” note to someone of the same gender can get you imprisoned for 3 YEARS…or KILLED, to get kicked out of an establishment that you have every right to patronize just for sharing a hug or kiss, to see EVERY F**KING commercial or advert cater to something you don’t identify with, is a VERY painful way to live. I can go on, but there’s not enough text space.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 10:45am
  192. GROWL!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 10:46am
  193. eBigotry

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 11:56am
  194. This guy is nothing but an old uneducated racist fool!!!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:17pm
  195. Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:20pm
  196. I can discriminate against whatever I want Krenek, and I’m athiest, I have no preprogrammed beliefs. Biologically homosexuality is completely wrong. As for marriage issues, its actually really retarded for homosexual people to want to get married as the entire premise of marriage is the bonding of a man and a woman. The entire concept was mostly designed to settle thing srelated to the children the man and the woman would procreate, things such as last name and birth certificates and citizenship, things of that nature. Homosexuals are fighting for the legal right to have a piece of paper that doesn’t have anything to do with them. Bravo, while you’re at it why don’t you help vegetarians fight for meat-flavored tofu.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 12:49pm
  197. How do homophobes make their way to this particular page?? I don’t get it. Out of the millions of pages on Facebook, they somehow manage to end up here. Hmmm. Just thinking out loud.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 1:48pm
  198. i completly agree. must be pretty bored to make it to this page and tell the lgbt cummunity what HE thinks our lives our wrong. your life is wrong for being a hater. and coming on this page and saying this pathetic bullshit you say. shame on you!!!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 2:05pm
  199. For someone with no pre-programmed beliefs, you sure have a lot of fixed ideas and certainty about things that are much more nuanced and complex than you seem to understand, Dan Gladitz. You are an expert on theology, biology, sociology, law, and apparently everything else. Bravo to you.

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 5:35pm
  200. what is this, christianmingle.com?

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:15pm
  201. ass

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 6:59pm
  202. Some dudes love dudes. Some chicks love chicks. Get over it man!!!

    Posted on Monday, February 18, 2013 at 8:38pm
  203. I was born gay and some people were just born assholes.

    Posted on Tuesday, February 19, 2013 at 12:09am
  204. I’m from Poland. We’ve got huuge homophobia here. Our parliment just banned 2 project of legalizing same sex relationships. More and more people are fed up with that and think about escape. For me could be LA: http://outvoyager.com/las-vegas-3

    Posted on Tuesday, February 19, 2013 at 5:56am
  205. We don’t need pinion or your pity. We extend you ours…..

    Posted on Tuesday, February 19, 2013 at 9:55am
  206. I don’t need the piece of paper. I need the federal and state benefits that married status affords, benefits for which I am already being taxed I might add.

    Posted on Tuesday, February 19, 2013 at 10:35am
  207. I’m tired of the debate, too, but as long as asshats keep lying, I’m going to keep calling them LIAR. I notice he doesn’t say how much $ he’s made off the lesbian-gay site…

    Posted on Tuesday, February 19, 2013 at 10:37am