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Filed: Friday, January 13, 2012

NJ’s largest newspaper calls for constitutional amendment in favor of gay marriage

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NEWARK, N.J. — The New Jersey Star-Ledger — the state’s largest newspaper — on Thursday called for an amendment to the New Jersey state constitution that would legalize same-sex marriage in the Garden State.

In it’s opinion piece, the editor’s wrote:

It is heartening to see Democrats rally for a second charge on gay marriage after their failure to pass the measure in the days before Gov. Chris Christie took charge.

But let’s face it: This is not likely to succeed while Christie remains in office. He will veto it, as promised, and obedient Republicans in the Legislature will fall in line behind him, as always.

That’s the political lay of the land for the next two years, at least. If Christie wins re-election, this stalemate could drag on for six years. To most New Jersey citizens, that is simply not acceptable.

According to sources in Trenton, the governor is not saying what he’ll do in terms of the same-sex marriage bill, which the Democratic legislative leadership considers a major priority for this year’s session.

“They have a right to set their agenda, I’ll set mine, we’ll see who gets there first,” Christie said to reporters at an event in Camden. “When forced to make a decision, if forced to make a decision on it, I’ll make a decision.”

Christie has said previously that he favors the state’s civil unions law that was adopted in 2003.

The Star-Ledger continued:

It is clear by now the civil union law has failed to deliver equal rights. And the problem is not just the documented cases of gay couples facing discrimination in hospitals, workplaces or the insurance market.

The term “civil union” suggests that gay couples are somehow not worthy of full marriage, that they cannot be allowed to enter this club, that their sexual orientations make them second-class citizens. Dress it up all you want, that view is offensive on its face. The message it sends to gay couples and their children is toxic.

But in the debate over the possibility of passage of the same-sex law, one prominent Democratic lawmaker said he will not change his vote.

State Sen. Jeff Van Drew (D-Cape May), who opposed the bill, said he supports strengthening the civil union law, but stops short of wanting to call it marriage.

“I deeply respect the civil liberties and rights of all New Jerseyeans, but I also believe that marriage over the centuries has been unique between a man and a woman,” said Van Drew. “I am am willing to work diligently to make civil unions contractually and legally more effective, but I will not be voting for marriage equality,” Van Drew said.

The Star-Ledger editorial finished with:

So what is to be done? Sponsors of the gay marriage bill hope they can win new converts in the next few months, enough to override Christie’s expected veto. Some even hope the governor will change his mind. That would be the ideal outcome.

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But if all else fails, a constitutional amendment is worth a try as a last resort. Polls show New Jersey voters are ready to approve marriage equality today. And the tide is clearly moving in that direction, especially among young people. Gov. Andrew Cuomo has shown that it can be a popular cause, even in states with large Catholic populations such as New York and New Jersey.

This fight has been long and difficult, as winning civil rights for minority groups always is.

But the day will come when gay couples in New Jersey won’t have to look across the Hudson River and dream about equal treatment under the law.

They’ll have it right here at home — whether the governor likes it, or not.

Tags: Chris Christie, Civil Unions, Marriage Equality, New Jersey, New Jersey Star-Ledger, Newspapers

Filed under: New Jersey

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7 more reader comments:

  1. THAT WOULD BE AMAZING IF THEY ALLOW GAY MARRIAGE…

    Posted on Friday, January 13, 2012 at 9:37pm
  2. I knew new jersey held a special place in my heart!!!

    Posted on Friday, January 13, 2012 at 9:54pm
  3. GLBs need to also understand the pair of shoes for the Transsexuals and Intersexed (neither one are Sexual Orientation, but gender Identity and Issues) And they have to confirm a desision whether they are either a woman or man or vice versa (depending on how they accidentally came into this World)

    Posted on Friday, January 13, 2012 at 10:01pm
  4. Kendra: I approve of your point, but it’s not a decision they make to be that way. A transwoman doesn’t chose to be a man or a woman. She just is. She can choose to transition or not, but the need to be true to herself is always there. Also, who says that it has to be one or the other? You reinforce the oft-oppressive gender binary when you suggest that there can only be the two “main” genders: male and female. Who’s to say someone can’t be both at the same time? Or true to one some times and true to the other on different times. Or even neither? Think outside the box, my friend.

    Posted on Friday, January 13, 2012 at 10:08pm
  5. That Gay couples seek to marry is not an attack on marriage. If anything it is an ENDORSEMENT of marriage, an acknowledgment that it far better to encourage couples toward monogamy and commitment, rather just telling Gay people, “Sorry, you’ll just have to sacrifice any possibility of finding love, you might as well get used to being lonely and miserable for the rest of your life.”

    Ask any Straight couple why they choose to marry. Their answer will not be, “We want to get married so that we can have sex and make babies!” That would be absurd, since couples do not need to marry to make babies, nor is the ability of even desire to make babies a prerequisite for obtaining a marriage license.

    No, the reason couples choose to marry is to make a solemn declaration before friends and family members that they wish to make a commitment to one another’s happiness, health, and well-being, to the exclusion of all others. Those friends and family members will subsequently act as a force of encouragement for that couple to hold fast to their vows.

    THAT’S what makes marriage a good thing, whether the couple in question is Straight OR Gay.

    Posted on Saturday, January 14, 2012 at 7:21am
  6. I hope to see NJ WA and MD adopt marriage equality. It may come up for a referendum in WA and MD (no doubt) but I hope at the least it can be passed and upheld. In MD, I don’t know what will happen there. I hope that they can do something this year and pass it

    Posted on Sunday, January 15, 2012 at 2:21pm
  7. I know both Washington state and Maryland have voter-approved referendums – so both Washington state and Maryland will never see marriage equality for LGBT couples. However, does New Jersey have voter-approved referendums after bigots collect say 100,000 signatures on petitions (just like WA and MD)?????

    Posted on Tuesday, January 31, 2012 at 5:37am
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